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Sex is amazing. Now that we have that statement out in the open, you know that this article is going to be about sex and how great it is, what you can do to make it better and why it’s important to talk about sex. As long as it is legal and consensual, you should be talking about sex. It doesn’t matter if you are in a long term committed relationship or marriage, having a one night stand, a casual hookup with no strings attached or something in between, sex is amazing when you are in tune with your partner, so listen up!

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Let’s begin with some general rules about sex and we will scratch the surface on what will make your partner crave more steamy, sexual encounters with you. Being a great hookup goes beyond just coming together and having sex. Women and Men can easily find someone to help them to orgasm, which achieves one goal, but if you really want to be great at sex, then you have to consider that there are always at least two people having sex in a hookup.

Don’t ever be selfish during sex, unless you are looking for a one night stand and don’t care if the person ever speaks to you again. But then again, if you are going to have a one night stand or random hookup, wouldn’t you prefer that you and your partner are exhausted from the most passionate sex that you have either had in a while? We will assume that you want to ignite passion and continue on.

Passion is what drives relationships, whether one night stands, random hookups or long lasting monogamous marriages. The moment that you forget what your lover wants from your sexual encounters is the moment that interest levels start to drop off. The last thing you want is to be considered a bad sex partner, so never let the passion in the bedroom get stale.

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Passion is what drives an incredible sexual experience. So how do you keep it passionate when you just met someone online and you think it could lead to a sexual encounter? It is very simple and it involves being self-less. You have already made a connection online, so rather than jumping right into a chat message asking to meet up for casual sex, start asking questions. Here are some examples that are relatively straight-forward, but set the expectations accordingly.

What is your favorite thing about sex?
Do you enjoy oral sex?
Are you a giver or do you prefer to receive?
How important is foreplay to you?
What is your favorite thing to think about when you masturbate or what type of porn do appeals to you?
Do you have a favorite sex position?
Are you looking for a hookup, casual sex or a potential relationship?

Don’t be afraid to ask these questions. The more you know about your partner and their sexual desires, the better the sex will be. If you are chatting with a member on Shagbook and they are not reciprocating with questions for you, then maybe it’s not the right person for a long term relationship, but it is the right person for a one night stand. So be sure to keep an open mind, but at least you can put forth the effort to try and define what will give your hookup the ultimate pleasure from sex.

We can’t say it enough: pay attention to your hookup’s wants and needs out of sex and intimacy. If you are a giver and they are a giver, then both of you can spend some time enjoying being a receiver of intense pleasure. The way to find out whether your partner is a giver is very simple: ask them! It might seem embarrassing to ask the question of what your hookup wants out of sex, but if you get it all out in the open, then it closes the perception gap of what you are both looking for and what you all enjoy from sex.

Safe sex is important in a one night stand, hookup or long term relationship. Sex with protection can be very satisfying. Practice safe sex to avoid an STI or STD.

Okay? So you get it. Pay attention and ask questions and you will find yourself in a deep passionate sexual relationship with your online hookup. We have to make sure that you understand that consensual, safe sex in today’s world is a must.

An STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) can have many effects on relationships, feelings of self worth and the list goes on on physical health issues depending on what is contracted. Some STI’s have a cure and other infections have no cure and will cause you to be on anti-viral medication for the rest of your life. Would you risk having to take medication for the rest of your life for a slightly different feeling?

It’s a sensitive topic when talking about sex, but it is an extremely important topic to discuss and if you are serious about your health, then you might want to ask the question to your potential hookup in a chat as well. If you are using our online platform to find a one night stand, hookup, no strings attached relationship or a long term partner, then safe sex should be assumed from the beginning.

There are plenty of people out there who do not even know that they carry an STI, because they are asymptomatic and may have never had any signs that they contracted an infection. With STI’s looming silently inside of people’s bodies, make the assumption that you will be practicing safe sex. Even if your hookup wants to have unprotected sex, you should be prepared to have the conversation and bring protection no matter what.

Besides an STI, if you are a female hooking up with male, then practicing safe sex with a condom can virtually eliminate the possibility of having a child. That is a whole different conversation, but we are sure that you understand the concept of bringing a child into this world and how challenging that can be, especially if you just planned on a one night stand with your hookup.

According to the World Health Organization, every day, over 1 million are infected by a sexually transmitted infection.  How can you become a part of the solution ? Very easy. Practice safe sex.

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Can You Laugh Girls Into Bed?

Online dating may open the door to hundreds of potential partners, but it’s also a competitive arena. Hundreds of other guys are also competing for the attention of girls. 

Numerous studies indicate that a sense of humour is a high-ranking priority for girls. The more you can make a girl laugh, the more likely she is to sleep with you. Less so the other way round. Looks are more important for guys.

A good sense of humour can get you a long way with a romantic partner. Research shows that being able to make a girl laugh is a good indicator she is romantically interested you. 

As a matter of fact, humour is a key factor in forging a long-lasting relationship. It indicates you have an agreeable and sociable personality, helps people decide whether you are good fun and develops neural pathways that enable you to establish a deeper relationship. 

Researchers investigating how humour enhances courtship discovered how making people laugh is regarded as a strong personality trait. Not only is humour a hit with the girls but also elevates your social life and career path.

The Immigration Game 


Participants in various studies revealed they quickly decide on the suitability of potential partners if the candidate appears to be humorous. A sharp with is a good indicator of intelligence, divergent thinking and creativity. 

However, some researchers think connecting humour with intelligence is a generalisation. 

Professor Jeffrey Hall from the University of Kansas says comparing humour with a sign of intelligence does Not “give humour its due credit…Finding someone who appreciates your sense of humour is valuable in its own right.”

And in the online dating game, finding someone with a compatible sense of humour is where things can go awry – especially when you’re meeting people from different cultural and social backgrounds. 

study performed by Chinese immigrants at the University of British Columbia in Canada concluded that singles looking for love on online dating websites yielded a higher response rate by writing something witty on your profile. 

People looking for a potential partner online value a sense of humour highly. Other research has shown that male singles that demonstrate they are blessed with wit and charm receive more replies from girls.

Crafting Funny Online Dating Profiles 

Being funny is good. After all, laughter is the best me

dicine so they say. Empirical evidence also suggests women are more likely to be interested in men that make them laugh. 

However, when it comes to crafting an online dating profile, sex psychologists warn against being too funny. If you drop a joke and depreciating remarks into every other sentence it can make you appear childish – which is irritating. 

The right balance is to be funny and easygoing. Lead with a funny remark, but also describe yourself honestly and realistically. A smattering of witty remarks gives people something to work with for their first message. 

Whether you’re looking for a sex hook-up or a long-term relationship, a good sense of humour will help laugh girls into bed. Why not test your wit with the girls on Shagbook.

Working from home, homeschooling and looming financial burdens weighed on numerous relationships. Restrictions in the movement have impacted long-distant romances, new relationships and marriages. 

For couples in a relationship which was already fraught with tension, the cracks on the surface opened up to reveal the underlying problems. 

As countries gradually emerge from quarantine and ease into the ‘new normal’, reports suggest a spike in the number of married couples filing for divorce.

The fallout from the pandemic is a higher number of singles or separated people looking for a new romantic adventure. It’s almost certain that people will ramp up their efforts to find comfort in a relationship before the next lockdown. 

Whether you’re looking for excitement, a one-night-only sex hookup or a serious long-term relationship, online dating websites open doorways to a world of love, sex and excitement. 

The Need For Intimacy 


Humans have an innate need for intimacy. Sharing close moments, both verbally and physically, increases health and happiness. Without intimacy, you deny basic emotional needs and are more likely to feel depressed and mentally unstable. 

Singles may already be wondering how coronavirus will impact their need for physical intimacy. Touch and physical contact by a trusted person has a positive impact on your mental and physical health. 

Experts are well aware of the human need for emotional intimacy. The Dutch government even advised their singletons to find a sex buddy to help protect mental health. 

As a matter of fact, studies show that regular sex is good for mental and physical health. When you orgasm, the body releases the hormone prolactin which helps relieve stress and invites relaxation. In turn, you get a better night’s sleep. 

Other studies have found that regular sex helps to reduce anxiety and could also lower stress-related blood pressure

Sex Hookups Post Lockdown 


As people start to emerge from self-isolation, one thing is certain; they will be as horny as a dog on heat. Social media is already ablaze with talks of post-lockdown hookups and plans for various sexcapades. 

The general view seems to be there’s going to be “fuckfest”. 

Official sources (except the Dutch), of course, advise against sex hookups or with partners that live in different households. With tons of pent up sexual energy in reserve, it’s a safe bet that most people will ignore what health officials advise. 

However, that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t take precautions. There are ways of socially-distancing during sex. Health chiefs in New York suggest using glory holes. Whatever takes their fancy. 

Essentially, Covid-19 spreads from one person to the next through the exchange of fluids. But it cannot be passed on purely by having sex. Kissing is ill-advised. So is rimming.

But providing you don’t cough, sneeze or exchange saliva, you can have sexual intercourse without any risk of contracting coronavirus. Want to find a hookup?

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Looking For Love Post-Lockdown?

It’s fair to say that lockdown was tough for most people. For couples in relationships already under strain, the pressure of being in close confinement and the extreme economic concerns reached boiling-point. 

Working from home, homeschooling and looming financial burdens weighed on numerous relationships. Restrictions in the movement have impacted long-distant romances, new relationships and marriages. 

For couples in a relationship which was already fraught with tension, the cracks on the surface opened up to reveal the underlying problems. 

As countries gradually emerge from quarantine and ease into the ‘new normal’, reports suggest a spike in the number of married couples filing for divorce.

The fallout from the pandemic is a higher number of singles or separated people looking for a new romantic adventure. It’s almost certain that people will ramp up their efforts to find comfort in a relationship before the next lockdown. 

Whether you’re looking for excitement, a one-night-only sex hookup or a serious long-term relationship, online dating websites open doorways to a world of love, sex and excitement. 

The Need For Intimacy 


Humans have an innate need for intimacy. Sharing close moments, both verbally and physically, increases health and happiness. Without intimacy, you deny basic emotional needs and are more likely to feel depressed and mentally unstable. 

Singles may already be wondering how coronavirus will impact their need for physical intimacy. Touch and physical contact by a trusted person has a positive impact on your mental and physical health. 

Experts are well aware of the human need for emotional intimacy. The Dutch government even advised their singletons to find a sex buddy to help protect mental health. 

As a matter of fact, studies show that regular sex is good for mental and physical health. When you orgasm, the body releases the hormone prolactin which helps relieve stress and invites relaxation. In turn, you get a better night’s sleep. 

Other studies have found that regular sex helps to reduce anxiety and could also lower stress-related blood pressure

Sex Hookups Post Lockdown 


As people start to emerge from self-isolation, one thing is certain; they will be as horny as a dog on heat. Social media is already ablaze with talks of post-lockdown hookups and plans for various sexcapades. 

The general view seems to be there’s going to be “fuckfest”. 

Official sources (except the Dutch), of course, advise against sex hookups or with partners that live in different households. With tons of pent up sexual energy in reserve, it’s a safe bet that most people will ignore what health officials advise. 

However, that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t take precautions. There are ways of socially-distancing during sex. Health chiefs in New York suggest using glory holes. Whatever takes their fancy. 

Essentially, Covid-19 spreads from one person to the next through the exchange of fluids. But it cannot be passed on purely by having sex. Kissing is ill-advised. So is rimming.

But providing you don’t cough, sneeze or exchange saliva, you can have sexual intercourse without any risk of contracting coronavirus. Want to find a hookup?

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Experts Say Sex is Better Than Masturbating. Thanks For That!

Given the choice, most people would rather get laid than knock one out themselves. For singles in the post-pandemic era, that’s easier said than done – although not impossible!

Yet the fact of the matter is that orgasms are good for mental and physical health. Isolation, on the other hand, is not!

Health experts recommend ejaculating at least 21 times a year. It is estimated that men who ejaculate 21 times or more every 12 months, reduce the risk of developing prostate cancer. 

However, with sex out of the equation for singles, that only leaves one option. 

According to a survey compiled by Badoo, masturbation has reached epic proportions since lockdown. With bars and clubs out of bounds, the offline dating scene is like a ghost town.

The dating app surveyed over one thousand people aged between 18 to 50 during the lockdown. Three-quarters were singles and confirmed they had not had sex since the country closed. However, they did masturbate more than usual. 

Playing solo is not a bad thing. Medical experts say that masturbating can help ward off mental health whilst you’re in isolation.

However, sexual intercourse is “far more effective” because it releases more endorphins which are better for your general wellbeing. 

Orgasms can also improve other areas of your health. Sex has been found to reduce the risk of heart disease, relieve stress and boost your immune system. 

Mastering Masturbation


If you have found that you need to pull your pud more often since the pandemic, there’s a good chance you will get bored of your solo efforts pretty quickly. 

The award-winning journalist and sexpert, Alix Fox, has published some “top tips” that could provide a solution. Apparently, she says, these nuggets will “spice up masturbating”. 


We hope you’re ready for this:

  1. Observe the sensations in your entire body – joy isn’t only about stimulating the genitals. 
  2. Sit with your back to a door and imagine someone on the other side masturbating in tandem with you
  3. Play with yourself in front of a mirror to build a “positive self-image.” 
  4. Fiddle in the morning rather than at night.
  5. Grind your hips on to your hands and imagine it is somebody else’s private

Sex Dating Websites 


Although social distancing is still recommended, a lift on home-bound restrictions is encouraging people to try dating again. 

Yet with traditional dating scenes off-limits, singles are relying on online dating websites to find a romantic partner. 

According to Pew Research, three-in-ten adults say they have used an online dating site or app. Moreover, the majority report they have had a positive experience. 

The number of people that have met their future spouse through online dating apps has also increased over time. 

Online dating websites are the easiest way to connect with dozens of people that you find physically attractive. Providing you take precautions, sex hookups are not out of the equation either. 

However, health officials recommend taking precautions when meeting up with strangers for sex in the post-pandemic era. Sex is better than masturbating, but there is also more risk of contracting the virus.  

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