Sex is amazing. Now that we have that statement out in the open, you know that this article is going to be about sex and how great it is, what you can do to make it better and why it’s important to talk about sex. As long as it is legal and consensual, you should be talking about sex. It doesn’t matter if you are in a long term committed relationship or marriage, having a one night stand, a casual hookup with no strings attached or something in between, sex is amazing when you are in tune with your partner, so listen up!
Let’s begin with some general rules about sex and we will scratch the surface on what will make your partner crave more steamy, sexual encounters with you. Being a great hookup goes beyond just coming together and having sex. Women and Men can easily find someone to help them to orgasm, which achieves one goal, but if you really want to be great at sex, then you have to consider that there are always at least two people having sex in a hookup.
Don’t ever be selfish during sex, unless you are looking for a one night stand and don’t care if the person ever speaks to you again. But then again, if you are going to have a one night stand or random hookup, wouldn’t you prefer that you and your partner are exhausted from the most passionate sex that you have either had in a while? We will assume that you want to ignite passion and continue on.
Passion is what drives relationships, whether one night stands, random hookups or long lasting monogamous marriages. The moment that you forget what your lover wants from your sexual encounters is the moment that interest levels start to drop off. The last thing you want is to be considered a bad sex partner, so never let the passion in the bedroom get stale.
Passion is what drives an incredible sexual experience. So how do you keep it passionate when you just met someone online and you think it could lead to a sexual encounter? It is very simple and it involves being self-less. You have already made a connection online, so rather than jumping right into a chat message asking to meet up for casual sex, start asking questions. Here are some examples that are relatively straight-forward, but set the expectations accordingly.
What is your favorite thing about sex?
Do you enjoy oral sex?
Are you a giver or do you prefer to receive?
How important is foreplay to you?
What is your favorite thing to think about when you masturbate or what type of porn do appeals to you?
Do you have a favorite sex position?
Are you looking for a hookup, casual sex or a potential relationship?
Don’t be afraid to ask these questions. The more you know about your partner and their sexual desires, the better the sex will be. If you are chatting with a member on Shagbook and they are not reciprocating with questions for you, then maybe it’s not the right person for a long term relationship, but it is the right person for a one night stand. So be sure to keep an open mind, but at least you can put forth the effort to try and define what will give your hookup the ultimate pleasure from sex.
We can’t say it enough: pay attention to your hookup’s wants and needs out of sex and intimacy. If you are a giver and they are a giver, then both of you can spend some time enjoying being a receiver of intense pleasure. The way to find out whether your partner is a giver is very simple: ask them! It might seem embarrassing to ask the question of what your hookup wants out of sex, but if you get it all out in the open, then it closes the perception gap of what you are both looking for and what you all enjoy from sex.
Okay? So you get it. Pay attention and ask questions and you will find yourself in a deep passionate sexual relationship with your online hookup. We have to make sure that you understand that consensual, safe sex in today’s world is a must.
An STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) can have many effects on relationships, feelings of self worth and the list goes on on physical health issues depending on what is contracted. Some STI’s have a cure and other infections have no cure and will cause you to be on anti-viral medication for the rest of your life. Would you risk having to take medication for the rest of your life for a slightly different feeling?
It’s a sensitive topic when talking about sex, but it is an extremely important topic to discuss and if you are serious about your health, then you might want to ask the question to your potential hookup in a chat as well. If you are using our online platform to find a one night stand, hookup, no strings attached relationship or a long term partner, then safe sex should be assumed from the beginning.
There are plenty of people out there who do not even know that they carry an STI, because they are asymptomatic and may have never had any signs that they contracted an infection. With STI’s looming silently inside of people’s bodies, make the assumption that you will be practicing safe sex. Even if your hookup wants to have unprotected sex, you should be prepared to have the conversation and bring protection no matter what.
Besides an STI, if you are a female hooking up with male, then practicing safe sex with a condom can virtually eliminate the possibility of having a child. That is a whole different conversation, but we are sure that you understand the concept of bringing a child into this world and how challenging that can be, especially if you just planned on a one night stand with your hookup.
According to the World Health Organization, every day, over 1 million are infected by a sexually transmitted infection.? How can you become a part of the solution ? Very easy. Practice safe sex.
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