Sex toys are little sex buddies to help you achieve the very thing(s) you want from sex but may find lacking. If you’re flapping solo, they can be the helping hand you need in addition to, well, your hand. And if you’re flying with a partner in tow, they can be handy in case you’re feeling particularly adventurous. Either way, sex toys can be a useful addition to your pleasure toolbox.
If you find a rabbit vibe in your woman’s boudoir, don’t be surprised. Some women require external clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm (which is normal), and a trusty vibrator can get this job done. Just as you, too, may have particular desires that you think would be better served with a little helper at your disposal.
So if you’re sharing a bed and wish to bring a male-intended sex toy into your bedroom, don’t fret. Some women, more than others, are now actually more open to it than you think. The key is to ease them into it by being honest and clearly communicating your desire. With that in mind, here are some male sex toys that women might actually welcome in your bedroom:
The prostate is the male G-spot counterpart. Massaging it is a normal and healthy way to increase your sexual health while also enjoying extremely intense orgasms. It can also be therapeutic as it eases prostate inflammation while reducing pressure on the adjacent urinary tract. It is thereby recommended in the treatment of BPH (enlarged prostate), prostatitis, difficulty urinating, and even erectile dysfunction (ED).
With all the benefits of a p-spot massage, how can a woman keen on you being pleased say no? If we have to be honest, it’s most welcome when she is reluctant to perform the massage herself with her bare hand. Because, you know, having to stick one up there is not for all.
So take your pick of the best prostate massagers, and bring it on. And while you’re at it, mind the kind with dual stimulation—the one with an external massager (clit stimulator) for a kick-ass surprise for her. After all, you may want to share the pleasure.
A cock ring increases sensation in the male genitalia, making a solo play, oral sex, or intercourse more pleasurable. It makes erections harder, bigger, and longer-lasting, and as it slows blood flow, it can also result in more powerful orgasms (oh, yes!).
There are many different kinds of cock rings available, but one that will appeal to your lady is the dual pleasure type that will simultaneously stimulate her clitoris—a win-win!
Also known as a stroker, penis sleeve, sex sleeve, and pocket pussy, a masturbation sleeve is a textured device that encapsulates the male external genitals. It comes in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, materials, textures, and pleasure features (contraction controls, vibration patterns) and caters to many of your orgasmic needs.
Most masturbation sleeves are designed to mimic the feel of a vagina, mouth, or anus; hence, simulating a vaginal or anal penetration or a blowjob. For when she’s too bloated or lazy to give you one, she will welcome your use of these toys in your bedroom.
There is also a masturbation sleeve that connects online with her pleasure device so that you can engage in interactive play during a shared sesh—for when you’re apart and she’s unable to give it to you firsthand (see teledildonics).
There is a self-driven masturbation sleeve lined with bumps and ridges (to create the sensation of a hand) that can jerk you off sans hands. Your lady would approve of this because, you know, handjobs could be quite a lot of work, and wrist and arm ache is no fun.
When a fully-automated machine is attached to the genitals, then you can use your fingers and hands for other things. So, in general, hands-free masturbation sleeves allow you and your partner more freedom to explore your boundaries while ensuring your pleasure. It doesn’t get any better than that.
Soft Bondage Accessories
You don’t have to go full Christian Grey—unless that’s both your thing and you have her full consent. A satin blindfold, feather tickler, plush cuffs, and some light spanking won’t hurt. It’s just a good foresight to have some soft bondage gear at hand in case you feel like mixing things up a little.
In our present, more sex-positive society, sex toys are a natural addition to your sex life. Thus, it won’t be so hard to bring one of your own into your bedroom. As I’m sure you’re both keen on getting your orgasms easier and adding some variety to your bedroom repertoire, all it takes are some empathy, honesty, and communication with your partner.