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Penis Size Does Matter When Dating. But Not Too Big, Not Too Small

The age-old question “does penis size matter” never seems to go away. But the fact of the matter is, it matters.

However, before you start worrying about the size of your package, take confidence from another cliche: “There’s something for everyone.”

A recent article in The Sun reveals that some women prefer a smaller penis whilst others are more satisfied in bed with a longer length.

What all women agree on is that healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. Being compatible in the bedroom is important to the success of a long-term relationship.

Online Dating Survey

The penis-size piece comes off the back of a survey performed by online dating sites, ‘Dinky One’ and ‘Big One’.

According to the survey, 44% of the female participants said eight-inches is the ideal size to make them orgasm. 30% of women are happy with a four-inch todger – the same number of women that prefer an 11-inch manhood.

The results of the survey underscore the old adage, “It’s not the size that counts, but how you use it!”

One of the interviewees, Georgia Gardiner agreed. The 26-year-old told reporters she once dated a man with a 7-inch penis but he never satisfied her in bed.

“When we had sex he didn’t put much effort in. He assumed his size meant he didn’t need to do much to pleasure me, which was not only not true, but also a real turn off,” she said.

Women also think that men with a less than average penis size should not feel ashamed or embarrassed.

“Just because a man has a small penis, doesn’t mean he is less of a lover,” Georgina told reporters.

A male interviewee Alfie Tavares, echoed these sentiments. The London bus driver told The Sun, “I knew I was smaller than most guys as I’d seen a lot in changing rooms, so I wanted to make sure I made up for my size by being great at pleasing women in bed.”

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

Whenever a woman first starts dating a man, she contemplates whether he will be able to satisfy her in bed. Penis size crosses her mind. Some women want to know early in the dating phase if a man’s package meets their preference.

Deborah-Jay Kelly, 52, says she prefers a larger penis and wants to know the size of a man’s package before she makes the effort of getting to know a potential lover.

She thinks that in 2020, it’s time prospective couples openly discussed sex in the early stages. Online adult hook up dating websites provide people with an ideal platform to discuss things like penis size without feeling embarrassed.

Men with a bigger than average penis may be more confident with women, but they also experience more disappointing experiences. An oversized penis can be painful for women and limits the number of positions couples can try.

Joe O’Brien, 32, of Wellingborough, Northampton told Sun reporters that he feels confident knowing he can pleasure women his larger Han average member so he doesn’t worry about it.

However, he also admitted that some of his conquests were not so impressed.  

“I have dated women before who haven’t appreciated my size. They have been intimidated or found it painful and it’s always awkward as they feel like they can’t say anything about it.”

The crux of the matter is that penis size is a preference. In an age when people can easily connect with strangers online, talking about sexual preferences in the ‘getting-to-know-you’ stages of dating is a question that can help singles identify a potential match.

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Can You Laugh Girls Into Bed?

Online dating may open the door to hundreds of potential partners, but it’s also a competitive arena. Hundreds of other guys are also competing for the attention of girls. 

Numerous studies indicate that a sense of humour is a high-ranking priority for girls. The more you can make a girl laugh, the more likely she is to sleep with you. Less so the other way round. Looks are more important for guys.

A good sense of humour can get you a long way with a romantic partner. Research shows that being able to make a girl laugh is a good indicator she is romantically interested you. 

As a matter of fact, humour is a key factor in forging a long-lasting relationship. It indicates you have an agreeable and sociable personality, helps people decide whether you are good fun and develops neural pathways that enable you to establish a deeper relationship. 

Researchers investigating how humour enhances courtship discovered how making people laugh is regarded as a strong personality trait. Not only is humour a hit with the girls but also elevates your social life and career path.

The Immigration Game 


Participants in various studies revealed they quickly decide on the suitability of potential partners if the candidate appears to be humorous. A sharp with is a good indicator of intelligence, divergent thinking and creativity. 

However, some researchers think connecting humour with intelligence is a generalisation. 

Professor Jeffrey Hall from the University of Kansas says comparing humour with a sign of intelligence does Not “give humour its due credit…Finding someone who appreciates your sense of humour is valuable in its own right.”

And in the online dating game, finding someone with a compatible sense of humour is where things can go awry – especially when you’re meeting people from different cultural and social backgrounds. 

study performed by Chinese immigrants at the University of British Columbia in Canada concluded that singles looking for love on online dating websites yielded a higher response rate by writing something witty on your profile. 

People looking for a potential partner online value a sense of humour highly. Other research has shown that male singles that demonstrate they are blessed with wit and charm receive more replies from girls.

Crafting Funny Online Dating Profiles 

Being funny is good. After all, laughter is the best me

dicine so they say. Empirical evidence also suggests women are more likely to be interested in men that make them laugh. 

However, when it comes to crafting an online dating profile, sex psychologists warn against being too funny. If you drop a joke and depreciating remarks into every other sentence it can make you appear childish – which is irritating. 

The right balance is to be funny and easygoing. Lead with a funny remark, but also describe yourself honestly and realistically. A smattering of witty remarks gives people something to work with for their first message. 

Whether you’re looking for a sex hook-up or a long-term relationship, a good sense of humour will help laugh girls into bed. Why not test your wit with the girls on Shagbook.

Working from home, homeschooling and looming financial burdens weighed on numerous relationships. Restrictions in the movement have impacted long-distant romances, new relationships and marriages. 

For couples in a relationship which was already fraught with tension, the cracks on the surface opened up to reveal the underlying problems. 

As countries gradually emerge from quarantine and ease into the ‘new normal’, reports suggest a spike in the number of married couples filing for divorce.

The fallout from the pandemic is a higher number of singles or separated people looking for a new romantic adventure. It’s almost certain that people will ramp up their efforts to find comfort in a relationship before the next lockdown. 

Whether you’re looking for excitement, a one-night-only sex hookup or a serious long-term relationship, online dating websites open doorways to a world of love, sex and excitement. 

The Need For Intimacy 


Humans have an innate need for intimacy. Sharing close moments, both verbally and physically, increases health and happiness. Without intimacy, you deny basic emotional needs and are more likely to feel depressed and mentally unstable. 

Singles may already be wondering how coronavirus will impact their need for physical intimacy. Touch and physical contact by a trusted person has a positive impact on your mental and physical health. 

Experts are well aware of the human need for emotional intimacy. The Dutch government even advised their singletons to find a sex buddy to help protect mental health. 

As a matter of fact, studies show that regular sex is good for mental and physical health. When you orgasm, the body releases the hormone prolactin which helps relieve stress and invites relaxation. In turn, you get a better night’s sleep. 

Other studies have found that regular sex helps to reduce anxiety and could also lower stress-related blood pressure

Sex Hookups Post Lockdown 


As people start to emerge from self-isolation, one thing is certain; they will be as horny as a dog on heat. Social media is already ablaze with talks of post-lockdown hookups and plans for various sexcapades. 

The general view seems to be there’s going to be “fuckfest”. 

Official sources (except the Dutch), of course, advise against sex hookups or with partners that live in different households. With tons of pent up sexual energy in reserve, it’s a safe bet that most people will ignore what health officials advise. 

However, that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t take precautions. There are ways of socially-distancing during sex. Health chiefs in New York suggest using glory holes. Whatever takes their fancy. 

Essentially, Covid-19 spreads from one person to the next through the exchange of fluids. But it cannot be passed on purely by having sex. Kissing is ill-advised. So is rimming.

But providing you don’t cough, sneeze or exchange saliva, you can have sexual intercourse without any risk of contracting coronavirus. Want to find a hookup?

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Looking For Love Post-Lockdown?

It’s fair to say that lockdown was tough for most people. For couples in relationships already under strain, the pressure of being in close confinement and the extreme economic concerns reached boiling-point. 

Working from home, homeschooling and looming financial burdens weighed on numerous relationships. Restrictions in the movement have impacted long-distant romances, new relationships and marriages. 

For couples in a relationship which was already fraught with tension, the cracks on the surface opened up to reveal the underlying problems. 

As countries gradually emerge from quarantine and ease into the ‘new normal’, reports suggest a spike in the number of married couples filing for divorce.

The fallout from the pandemic is a higher number of singles or separated people looking for a new romantic adventure. It’s almost certain that people will ramp up their efforts to find comfort in a relationship before the next lockdown. 

Whether you’re looking for excitement, a one-night-only sex hookup or a serious long-term relationship, online dating websites open doorways to a world of love, sex and excitement. 

The Need For Intimacy 


Humans have an innate need for intimacy. Sharing close moments, both verbally and physically, increases health and happiness. Without intimacy, you deny basic emotional needs and are more likely to feel depressed and mentally unstable. 

Singles may already be wondering how coronavirus will impact their need for physical intimacy. Touch and physical contact by a trusted person has a positive impact on your mental and physical health. 

Experts are well aware of the human need for emotional intimacy. The Dutch government even advised their singletons to find a sex buddy to help protect mental health. 

As a matter of fact, studies show that regular sex is good for mental and physical health. When you orgasm, the body releases the hormone prolactin which helps relieve stress and invites relaxation. In turn, you get a better night’s sleep. 

Other studies have found that regular sex helps to reduce anxiety and could also lower stress-related blood pressure

Sex Hookups Post Lockdown 


As people start to emerge from self-isolation, one thing is certain; they will be as horny as a dog on heat. Social media is already ablaze with talks of post-lockdown hookups and plans for various sexcapades. 

The general view seems to be there’s going to be “fuckfest”. 

Official sources (except the Dutch), of course, advise against sex hookups or with partners that live in different households. With tons of pent up sexual energy in reserve, it’s a safe bet that most people will ignore what health officials advise. 

However, that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t take precautions. There are ways of socially-distancing during sex. Health chiefs in New York suggest using glory holes. Whatever takes their fancy. 

Essentially, Covid-19 spreads from one person to the next through the exchange of fluids. But it cannot be passed on purely by having sex. Kissing is ill-advised. So is rimming.

But providing you don’t cough, sneeze or exchange saliva, you can have sexual intercourse without any risk of contracting coronavirus. Want to find a hookup?

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Experts Say Sex is Better Than Masturbating. Thanks For That!

Given the choice, most people would rather get laid than knock one out themselves. For singles in the post-pandemic era, that’s easier said than done – although not impossible!

Yet the fact of the matter is that orgasms are good for mental and physical health. Isolation, on the other hand, is not!

Health experts recommend ejaculating at least 21 times a year. It is estimated that men who ejaculate 21 times or more every 12 months, reduce the risk of developing prostate cancer. 

However, with sex out of the equation for singles, that only leaves one option. 

According to a survey compiled by Badoo, masturbation has reached epic proportions since lockdown. With bars and clubs out of bounds, the offline dating scene is like a ghost town.

The dating app surveyed over one thousand people aged between 18 to 50 during the lockdown. Three-quarters were singles and confirmed they had not had sex since the country closed. However, they did masturbate more than usual. 

Playing solo is not a bad thing. Medical experts say that masturbating can help ward off mental health whilst you’re in isolation.

However, sexual intercourse is “far more effective” because it releases more endorphins which are better for your general wellbeing. 

Orgasms can also improve other areas of your health. Sex has been found to reduce the risk of heart disease, relieve stress and boost your immune system. 

Mastering Masturbation


If you have found that you need to pull your pud more often since the pandemic, there’s a good chance you will get bored of your solo efforts pretty quickly. 

The award-winning journalist and sexpert, Alix Fox, has published some “top tips” that could provide a solution. Apparently, she says, these nuggets will “spice up masturbating”. 


We hope you’re ready for this:

  1. Observe the sensations in your entire body – joy isn’t only about stimulating the genitals. 
  2. Sit with your back to a door and imagine someone on the other side masturbating in tandem with you
  3. Play with yourself in front of a mirror to build a “positive self-image.” 
  4. Fiddle in the morning rather than at night.
  5. Grind your hips on to your hands and imagine it is somebody else’s private

Sex Dating Websites 


Although social distancing is still recommended, a lift on home-bound restrictions is encouraging people to try dating again. 

Yet with traditional dating scenes off-limits, singles are relying on online dating websites to find a romantic partner. 

According to Pew Research, three-in-ten adults say they have used an online dating site or app. Moreover, the majority report they have had a positive experience. 

The number of people that have met their future spouse through online dating apps has also increased over time. 

Online dating websites are the easiest way to connect with dozens of people that you find physically attractive. Providing you take precautions, sex hookups are not out of the equation either. 

However, health officials recommend taking precautions when meeting up with strangers for sex in the post-pandemic era. Sex is better than masturbating, but there is also more risk of contracting the virus.  

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